Taking charge of your own life is the only way that things will ever improve. This was the most important lesson that I have learned in my life. I got married when I was 18 and relied solely on my husband to take care of me. Before that, it was my parents. When my marriage fell apart, I had a whole lot to learn. I fell into a deep depression and couldn't find my way back out. That was until I attended a self-help clinic. I learned several ways to help pull myself out of the rut that I was in. Find out what helped me here on my blog.